Pet Play Kink – The Ultimate Guide to Exploring Animal Roleplay

By Rachel Green 4th Apr 2023

Buyer Buyers’ Perspective Pet Play Kink – The Ultimate Guide to Exploring Animal Roleplay

So as many of you on here may have seen I am a pet. I love Pet Play. What is this you may ask, well I am here to try give you a better understanding of this.

THE FIRST THING IS THIS DOES NOT INVOLVE REAL ANIMALS! I just wanted to make that as clear as I can.

Pet play has been around for a lot longer than many of you may think and wasn’t always a sexual thing or a BDSM thing.

Taking on the role of an animal persona has been a thing since ancient times, with many associating it with things such as “therianthropy” which is much more to do with being able to shape shift into animals. However, some have theorized about this being more around acquiring the mental attributes of an animal rather than the physical detail form. Some other evidence comes from ancient rituals and such, but details on these can be scarce. Other small parts can be found through stories, including many depicting pony play, come from religious texts up until recent times. Sometimes mentioning it as a role of “dressing up” up to acting fully in their animal roles.

With the explosion of the internet, things such as Pup and Pet play in general have been much easier to find. Even with various sites coming and going over time, new sites are popping up all the time allowing more and more people to come and find out about pet play (including you!).

The modern history comes from the BDSM and leather communities with a slave/master relationship. As time went on, some slaves would be degraded into that of an animal, such as a dog. However, many found it to be fun and relieving and for some enjoyed it more of a separate thing, myself for one. This kink, often referred to as animal play, involves participants taking on the roles of domesticated animals, complete with behaviors and accessories characteristic of those animals.

What is Pet Play?

Pet play is a fascinating form of animal roleplay where individuals adopt the persona of an animal, such as a puppy, kitten, or pony. This activity, popular in BDSM circles, allows participants to explore their creativity and imagination in unique ways. For many, pet play is a form of self-expression, tapping into primal instincts and behaviors that offer a sense of freedom and release from the constraints of everyday life. Whether you’re embodying the playful nature of a puppy or the graceful movements of a kitten, pet play can be a liberating and exhilarating experience.

Types of Pet Play

There are many different types of pet play, each offering its own unique experiences and behaviors:

Pup Play: This involves adopting the persona of a puppy or dog. Participants might engage in behaviors such as barking, whining, and playing fetch. Pup play is one of the most popular forms of pet play, with many pups enjoying the playful and loyal characteristics of a dog.
Pony Play: In pony play, individuals take on the role of a pony or horse. This can include behaviors such as neighing, prancing, and even being ridden. Pony play often involves elaborate gear and training, making it a highly immersive experience.
Kitten Play: Those who engage in kitten play adopt the persona of a kitten or cat. This can involve meowing, purring, and pouncing on toys. Kitten play is often characterized by its playful and affectionate nature.
Other Pets: Beyond the common types, pet play can include a wide variety of animals. Some people might choose to be rabbits, foxes, or even mythical creatures like dragons and unicorns. The possibilities are endless, allowing for a rich diversity of experiences within the pet play community.

The Dynamics of Types of Pet Play

So how does this work you ask. Well first there is the Pet. Now this can be anything from dog, cat, pony or even a mythical animal. The pet will take on the role of the animal they identify as, in my case a dog. They will take on the characteristics and actions of the animal they are. Depending on how deep the headspace goes, practiced pet players can find themselves in a space that makes it difficult to participate in conversations—like being in a deep meditative state! While in this state they may choose to bark yap meow or what ever they feel their animal self may do. There are many props that can help in this kink such as in my case a pup hood, a tail (butt or belt), paws for hands and collars with leashes. You can even use dog toys and such as well. Some Owners prefer to feed their pets from a bowl. In all there is a multitude of items that can help make pet play as close to realistic as you want to go.

Individuals in a dominant role often assume responsibility and exert control over their pets, forming unique relationships within the community.

A pet on their own is usually referred to as a stray. So we come to the pet players who are not pets. These are usually called Owner, Handler, or Trainer. The Owner is the one the pet looks to for training, food and general care. Train and care for your pet and they will be loyal to you. These roles in pet play can significantly influence the dynamics and experiences of the participants.

The power dynamic between pets and their Owners, Handlers, or Trainers can vary, with some relationships following a Dominant/submissive model while others operate on a more egalitarian basis.

While this is regularly considered a kink, a lot of pet players do not engage in sexual activity while in their pet headspace. Of course, there’s always an exception to the rule (and if sex while in your pet headspace is what feels natural, I encourage it!) but a lot of pet players enter their animalistic headspace with zero expectations of sexual arousal or activity.

For a lot of pets the headspace they go into is an escape from the real world outside where they often have high stress jobs or lives and need that getaway.

The Experience

My first experience of pet play came from a Domme who sometimes collared and leashed me. She would take me for walks in her generously sized gardens. Inside the house she started to call me dog. Over time I found I liked this more than the D/s relationship we had and asked about exploring it more. Unfortunately, she didn’t want to, so we parted ways. After a while I found a Dom who was happy to have a puppy to train separate to his sub. So began 3 years of been trained to be the best dog around. His training included everything he would train a real dog to do. When I was with him I was kept as he would keep a real dog. The more I experienced this the more I wanted it to continue. My life had changed from been a sub to be a pet dog.

I found partners who were interested in pet play through social media and adult websites, which helped me connect with like-minded individuals.

Sadly my owner passed away and I found myself lost and a stray again. Fast toward 3 years and I was talking to a Domme who wanted a female pup and was struggling to find one near her. Through our conversations I found she was only a few miles from me and asked if she would be interested in a male pup to which she said no. I explained about me been a crossdresser and how I enjoyed been a girl when dressed up and after a few weeks of chatting she told me she could be interested in Owning me as her pup but only if I was a female pup and so I became the little bitch I am today.

Thanks to ATW I have been very fortunate to find a girl here who has become my Owner. Yes she is new to this but she has taken to it like a natural probably because she owns a dog and knows how to care and look after one. I am glad I found Twinkletoesjessi as we have built a great relationship here one I hope will last for many years to come. The commitment and bond we share resemble a romantic relationship, highlighting the deep connection we have formed.

Safety and Consent

Safety and consent are the cornerstones of a positive pet play experience. Before diving into pet play, it’s crucial to establish clear boundaries and guidelines. This includes discussing safe words, physical limitations, and any emotional triggers that need to be considered.

Physical safety is paramount. Using protective gear or padding can help prevent injuries, and it’s important to be mindful of any health concerns. Equally important is emotional safety. Respecting each other’s emotional needs and boundaries ensures that everyone involved feels comfortable and secure.

By prioritizing safety and consent, pet play can be a fun and exciting way to explore one’s creativity and imagination. Remember, the goal is to create a positive and enjoyable experience for all parties involved.

How to Treat Your Pet

In short, your pet will want to be treated as you would a real pet. Pets enjoy being petted and receiving physical affection, which enhances the bond between handlers and their pets. Some will want a sexual connection, including sexual favors, while some will not; this is something for you to explore and find out. Some pets don’t want this as fully but may only want aspects of it. However you enjoy Pet Play, do it safe and always always (I can't stress this enough) have an aftercare session afterwards. Sit and discuss the session, let your pet talk, and then let your owner talk. Discuss what was good and what was not so good. Always have a safe word or an action to stop things if they go beyond that which you are comfortable with.

Above all, if you wish to be an Owner/Handler, do your research; you do not want to be a bad Owner. Remember, if you do this wrong, you can damage a mind.

If you want to be a pet, do your research and know your limits, and discuss with a potential Owner before entering into this relationship.

A Beginning?

It's worth noting the importance of understanding the dynamics and roles within pet play. Well I hope I have given you an insight into Pet Play. I’m always available if you have questions and will answer them if I can. If you’re going to take a trip into Pet Play then I wish you the very best of fun with it and hope I’m able to give you a good beginning.